We all need a little help in coping with life from time to time. Days when we're down, days when nothing seems to go right. When the world gets us down we need some inspiration. I like to shut myself away and listen to some great songs or read some inspirational poems.

This is one of my favorite songs by the Carpenters. It's not as well known as many of their other songs but I love it - we should never forget our dreams even in the darkest moments. We should hold onto our dreams and one day we'll achieve them. Every time I hear the words 'We can still make the stars We can still break the bars We have built here on earth' I get a lump in my throat. Karen had such a lovely voice and tragically lost her life at an early age but her music lives on and can inspire us all.

 

 

Look To Your Dreams by The Carpenters

To say I'm old-fashioned would be quite semantically true
But make-believe passion has fallen from fashion's milieu
It's understandable why we're a little confused
It's asking for trouble just watching the six o'clock news
But for a moment, all things aside look to yourself somewhere inside.
Refrain:
Look to your dreams
Don't they still seem worthwhile?
Don't they still seem in style?
Aren't you glad they're still there?
Look to your dreams
There's a need for them now
When the world has us down
Aren't you glad they're around?
Once conceived, once believed fantasy's reality's childhood
And like a seed, visions need constant care like a child would, we
should.
Look to your dreams
We can still make the stars
We can still break the bars
We have built here on earth
Look to your dreams
And tomorrow may be better for you and me
The future may say
Blame blind yesterday for taking dreams away
The could mean more than they seem

On the same theme of holding onto our dreams this poem was sent to me in a get well card a long time ago. I can't even remember who was the friend who sent it to me but the lyrics are so beautiful that I committed them to memory and think about them when I need a little help getting through the day. I hope you like it too.

 Reaching for Rainbows by By Collin McCarty.

If We Don't Take Chances, then We'll Never Find the Rainbows

If we don't ever take chances,
we won't reach the rainbows.
If we don't ever search,
we'll never be able to find.
If we don't attempt to get over
our doubts and fears,
we'll never discover how wonderful
it is to live without them.
If we don't go beyond difficulty,
we won't grow any stronger.
If we don't keep our dreams alive,
we won't have our dreams any longer.

But...
if we can take a chance now and then,
seek and search, discover and dream,
grow and go through each day
with the knowledge that
we can only take as much as we can give,
and we can only get as much out of life
as we allow ourselves to live....

Then...
we can be truly happy.
We can realize a dream or two along the way,
and we can make a habit of
reaching out for rainbows
and coloring our lives
with wonderful days.

By Collin McCarty.

 

My next poem is by Richard Hosea and I particularly like the last two lines 'We must use our time bringing help to others, Bringing light and joy to all our brothers'. How very true and something to strive for every day.

Time Marches On

The Bible says, 'To every thing there is a time'
To every season there is a rhyme.
Time goes on with a relentless pace
Our lives are spent before we erase
Those dark secrets of the mind
Those secrets we want to leave behind.

Time is a Product from days of old,
But time is a commodity that can't be sold.
Yet, each of us has so many days,
We cannot add to this life's maze.
To buy one hour may be our goal,
It's still the truth no time is sold.

To the human race, much time is given,
For each to choose by what he's driven.
Our misused time is gone forever,
But well used time is wasted never.
We must use our time bringing help to others,
Bringing light and joy to all our brothers.

 

The last poem is a famous inspirational poem that I like to read when I have an important decision to make and can't see the way forward. Many times in life we come to a fork in our paths, a decision to take that may affect the rest of our lives. How to decide which path to take?  We may stand at the fork and be unable to decide one way or the other. Do we take the road that appears easy and bright or the one that may be harder but could yield untold rewards?

 

No one can make our decisions for us but once we've made the decision never look back in regret, accept what the future brings and know we made the best decision we could at the time. If it proves to be the wrong decision well, we can learn from our mistakes and move on!

The Road Not Taken
By Robert Frost

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I -
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

 

For more inspiration visit Quote of the Day - Start your day on a positive note. You will find inspirational sayings, quotes, and proverbs filled with words of wisdom.

To read more about Karen carpenter see Battling Anorexia: The Story of Karen Carpenter

After getting amazingly good feedback on my previous article about movies that make you cry, I decided to write about other things that will impress people to tears. If crying is not quite desirable in the day to day life, when it comes to fiction people love to shed a tear or two for those movie heroes who face difficult life situations. Poems are even easier to touch the heart, as they don’t even need to depict such situations for building up those tears inside the reader’s mind. Metaphors and subtle suggestions are most of the times enough to make sensitive people feel the emotion. Here’s a list of 10 great poems that make you cry (actually they may not make all of you look after a handkerchief, but they are still beautiful and memorable). Most of them are sad and talk about love and friendship. Some of the poems are song lyrics. Where possible, I’ve included the song video with English subtitles for foreign language ones. Where I couldn’t find subtitles, I added the translation below the video. Poems are not ranked, but if you wish, I’d love to hear which one is your favorite and why it makes you cry. Let's make this list really big, shall we?

 

1. Seasons in the Sun – Terry Jacks, 1974

 

Here are the lyrics of this song:

Goodbye to you my trusted friend

We've known each other since we were nine or ten

Together we climbed hills and trees

Learned of love and A B C's

Skinned our hearts and skinned our knees.

 

Goodbye my friend it's hard to die

When all the birds are singing in the sky

Now that the spring is in the air

Pretty girls are everywhere

Think of me and I'll be there

 

We had joy we had fun

We had seasons in the sun

But the hills that we climbed were just seasons

Out of time......

 

Goodbye Papa please pray for me

I was the black sheep of the family

You tried to teach me right from wrong

Too much wine and too much song

Wonder how I got along.

 

Goodbye Papa its hard to die

When all the birds are singing in the sky

Now that the spring is in the air

Little children everywhere

When you see them I'll be there.

 

We had joy we had fun

We had seasons in the sun

But the wine and the song like the seasons

Have all gone.

 

We had joy we had fun

We had seasons in the sun

But the wine and the song like the seasons

Have all gone.

 

Goodbye Michelle my little one

You gave me love and helped me find the sun

And every time that I was down

You would always come around

And get my feet back on the ground.

 

Goodbye Michelle it's hard to die

When all the birds are singing in the sky

Now that the spring is in the air

With the flowers everywhere

I wish that we could both be there

 

We had joy we had fun

We had seasons in the sun

But the stars we could reach

Were just starfish on the beach

 

We had joy we had fun

We had seasons in the sun

But the stars we could reach

Were just starfish on the beach

 

We had joy we had fun

We had seasons in the sun

But the wine and the song like the seasons

Have all gone

 

All our lives we had fun

We had seasons in the sun

But the hills that we climbed were just seasons

Out of time......

 

We had joy we had fun

We had seasons in the sun

 

With more than 6 million copies sold worldwide, Seasons in the Sun was one of the great hits of the 70s, but few people may know its roots come from a song written and interpreted 13 years earlier by Jacques Brel, a Belgian artist. You can listen below to Brel’s version:

 

2. Dying (Le Moribonde - Jacques Brel, 1961)

 

This is what the lyrics say:

Farewell Emil, I loved you well

Farewell Emil, I loved you well, you know

We used to sing the same wines

We used to sing the same chicks

We used to sing the same sorrows.

 

Farewell Emil, I'm going to die

It's tough dying in spring, you know,

But I go to flowers with my soul at peace,

As you who are as good as white bread,

I know you'll take care of my wife.

 

I want you to laugh

I want you to dance

I want you to have fun like crazy,

I want you to laugh

I want you to dance

After you see me to the grave.

 

Farewell Priest, I loved you well

Farewell Priest, I loved you well, you know

We didn’t belong in same groups

We didn’t follow the same path,

But we seeking for the same harbor.

 

Farewell Priest, I'm going to die

It's tough dying in spring, you know,

But I go to flowers with my soul at peace,

As you who’ve been her confident,

I know you'll take care of my wife.

 

I want you to laugh

I want you to dance

I want you to have fun like crazy,

I want you to laugh

I want you to dance

After you see me to the grave.

 

Farewell Antoine, I didn’t love you

Farewell Antoine, I didn’t love you, you know

I’m dying to see myself dying today

While you’re well and alive

And even stronger than a pain in the butt.

 

Farewell Antoine, I'm going to die

It's tough dying in spring, you know,

But I go to flowers with my soul at peace,

As you who were her lover,

I know you'll take care of my wife.

 

I want you to laugh

I want you to dance

I want you to have fun like crazy,

I want you to laugh

I want you to dance

After you see me to the grave.

 

Farewell my wife, I loved you well

Farewell my wife, I loved you well, you know

But I take the train to the Good God now,

A train that came ahead of yours,

But we all take whatever train we can.

 

Farewell my wife, I'm going to die

It's tough dying in spring, you know,

But I go to flowers with my eyes closed, my wife,

As you who’ve seen that I closed them so often,

I know you'll take care of my soul.

 

I want you to laugh

I want you to dance

I want you to have fun like crazy,

I want you to laugh

I want you to dance

After you see me to the grave.

 

As you can see, this one is in a bit more dramatic note than the previous one, as the guy in the story is not only dying as he sings, but he’s also been dying a little each time he closed his eyes on his wife’s love affair.

 

3. Song Of Old Lovers (Chanson des Vieux Amants – Jacques Brel, 1967)

 

This is another great musical poem written and composed by Jacques Brel, featuring a brilliant piano arrangement by Gerard Jouannest. The lyrics depict the “tender war” represented by the twenty year marriage of Jacques Brel and his wife Therese.

 

4. My Feelings For You Have Become Too Much

This is a nice song, illustrating a poem about the breakup sorrow of a girl who confesses “I love him but I let him go”.

 

 

“I’m gonna spend my whole life trying To keep love from dying” That’s a learning we could surely use more in our lives, couldn’t we?

 

5. Words Don’t Come Easy

 

 

This is another hit from the 80s, many of us probably still remember.

 

6. Bad Romance – Lady Gaga

 

 

Bad romance is always a source of tears. How do you like Lady Gaga? Is she cool or kitch? She seems to be on the wave right now.

 

7. Never Let You Go – Justin Bieber

 

 

This song is not too much of a tear starter, but when seeing a 12 years old boy like Justin Bieber singing “baby, know for sure that I’ll never let you go”, we can only foresee a flood of tears. How many of us didn’t let go of the “love of my life” from the age of 12?

 

8. Mirabeau Bridge – Guillaumme Apollinaire

 

The originally French language poem has its special charm which is difficult to translate if you aren’t a poet yourself. I’m not a poet, but I hope I was able to pass some of the emotion to you with this English translation:

 

The Seine flows under Mirabeau bridge,

Taking our past love with it.

It must be reminding me

That joy always follows sorrow

 

Night falls a bell tolls

Days go away I stay.

 

Hand in hand, let’s stay face to face

While under

The bridge of our joint arms passes

With eternal regrets the lazy wave.

 

Night falls a bell tolls

Days go away I stay.

 

Love drifts away like this running water

Love drifts away

How slow our life is

And how violent our hope

 

Night falls a bell tolls

Days go away I stay.

 

Days pass, weeks pass

Neither past time

Nor past love ever return

Under Mirabeau bridge the Seine flows.

 

Night falls a bell tolls

Days go away I stay.

 

9. With Every Single Day (In fiecare zi – Romulus Vulpescu)

 

With every single day we disregard

The birds, the love and the forgiving sea

Not realizing that we do, in fact,

Replace them with a desert of dismay.

 

Just fooled into the comfort of a dream

Which we dismiss with just one hesitation

We linger in our circle without seam

Denying our eyes the contemplation

 

We roll up in our sheets without joy,

A loneliness in two, cowardice fixes,

Whispering to each other words of lie

Which turn to dross our worn and common kisses.

 

Eventually we find ourselves too hollow

With an impermissibly low and sad ideal,

Too skeptical, too lonely, too desert

To see that love is here and still real.

 

With every single day we disregard

The birds, the love and the forgiving sea

Not realizing that we do, in fact,

Replace them with a desert of dismay.

 

After reading this poem you may want to relax a little and listen to an awesome musical interpretation by Tudor Gheorghe, Romanian folk music artist, poet and actor. Lyrics are not in English, but you already know what the poem is about, don’t you?

 

 

 

10. Nobody Deserves Your Tears

“Nobody deserves your tears, but whoever deserves them will not make you cry.” - Gabriel Garcia Marquez

This quote includes an unspoken poem. It doesn’t have to rhyme to make us think of how many times we cry for people that don’t deserve our tears. What a waste, isn’t it? Or maybe it’s not a waste. Like rain is needed for the rainbow to come out, a little crying may be needed to help happiness show up afterwards.

 

The list of sad and beautiful poems could go on forever. I’m actually inviting you to add your contribution, if you feel like it. What is your favorite tear shedding poem?