We all know the feeling: a special event (say, a birthday or anniversary) is approaching, and you’re having trouble thinking of a great gift idea for your loved one. Sometimes we have those little flashes of insight that lead to brilliant gift selection, but most of the time we’re left scratching our heads trying to find a gift that is both meaningful and appropriate for our budget. I can’t promise to solve this problem for your forever, but I hope to give you some strategies you can use to find a good gift next time you’re stumped.
The first strategy is to plan ahead. Now, this advice doesn’t come in handy if you’re down to the wire looking for a gift, but it’s something to keep in mind. Planning ahead helps you in several ways. One of the best strategies to be sure you’re always listening to your loved one. If he or she mentions a particular want or need, make a mental note (and later a physical) note of it. Gifts that come from off the cuff comments like this are especially meaningful, as it shows you are really listening and thinking of your partner’s needs. Planning ahead can also help you get the best deal on your gift by allowing you time to find the best bargain.
“All fine and well,” you say, “but I’ve only got a day to figure this out and I can’t remember a single want or need being mentioned.” Never fear, not all hope is lost. Before you resort to purchasing a generic gift certificate, try some of these other strategies:
- -Did your loved one make any large purchases (car, boat, house, etc.) that might need some accessories? These can make great, thoughtful gifts.
- -Some types of gifts can be considered “sure fire” provided you know your person well enough. For example, many men will always be happy to receive new tools, no matter how many they already have. Sneak into the garage, see what’s missing, and buy something he’ll love. You can always get a gift receipt just in case he already has one.
- -Consider a homemade gift. If you are “crafty” enough, you might be able to make a unique gift like a custom picture frame with a photo of a special moment you shared, or other similar creative gift idea.
Gift idea sites can also help you in a pinch. There are sites that specialize in gift ideas for men, gifts for teens, and any other niche you can think of. A quick internet search can pull up a lot of these, and help give you some quick inspiration. Visiting retailers you know your loved one likes to frequent and asking the salespeople their opinion on gift ideas is also a good strategy.
Hopefully this helps you get some ideas going for your gift shopping. Gifts are never easy, but they don’t have to be too tricky either. Just step back, put some thought into it, and you’ll have a great gift idea in no time.
Are the ladies in your life the hardest people to buy gifts for when the Christmas shopping comes around? This article will help with some suggestions for what gifts you can buy your wife, girlfriend, mum or daughter this Christmas.
Clothes
Women love clothes. It’s a bit of a stereotype but in most cases its true, so clothes make great gifts for women. The idea of buying clothes for ladies sometimes intimidates men, especially if it’s the first time they’ve brought for them but follow a few simple rules and you can’t go far wrong.
- Find out their size, don’t guess as this can easily lead to embarrassment if you get it wrong (either too large or too small).
- Shop where they shop or at least in similar stores, that way you’re more likely to get something which suits their usual style and which fits them well.
- Make sure its special – don’t just buy another blouse for her to wear to work or a pair of socks. Get her something that can be worn on special occasions like a party. These are the types of clothes girls get most excited about.
- Keep the receipts – get gift receipts if possible. Sometimes clothes just don’t look as good on as they did in the shop.
Music & films
A far more conservative option for Christmas gifts for women is to get her a music CD or DVD. Think about her favorite bands or movies and try to get something in a similar genre or style which she is likely to also enjoy.
Void stereotyping too much here- not all girls are into Sex and the City just like not all men are into Sylvester Stallone movies. Many girls love kids films as well- this christmas the Toy Story 3 DVD is released which will make a good stocking filler or something you can both enjoy like the latest stand up comedy DVDs
Try to get something she hasn’t seen or heard before which shows that you really know and understand her. The extra effort will be appreciated, even if you get it wrong. Failing that you could just play it safe and get her the new Take That album!
Video games
Video games might be more of a boys gift traditionally but more girls than ever before are getting into gaming as games developers start to appreciate the potential size of the female games market and start designing more games with them in mind.
If she hasn’t got a console you can buy her one which will usually come with a game or two included. Most girls tend to prefer games which challenge them mentally and require them to solve challenges and puzzles, but some girls just like a goo shoot ‘em up or racing game so you’ll have to use your judgment here!
Books
Few gifts offer better value than a book for longtivity of entertainment. As with movies and music you should think about what books she’s enjoyed before and try to find something similar. If the lady in your life isn’t a big reader you could start her off with a book which has been made into a film which you know she likes or even a novel adaptation of a movie she’s seen. This will at least show some though and that its not just a random purchase.
There are lots of designs and brands of Fountain Pens to choose from. Each design is elegant and really something that they will take good care of if they receive such kind of gifts. Men who are trendy and has an eye for fashion and gives elegance to themselves, maybe on how they dress, what clothes to wear, or to the things they use will surely jump for joy if they receive a Fountain Pen on their college graduation. And don’t every one know that if for example a man received a Parker Duofold Esparto Esparto Gold Collection Fountain pen, or a Aurora 88 Ottantotto Nikargenta Chrome Cap Black Large Fountain Pen, it’s a wow right? I myself will envy someone who will receive a gift like those luxurious, fashionable and trendy useful things like Fountain Pens.
Not all men are the same, well, every individual are different, and if you are still looking for the perfect gift for men on their graduation, there are lots of things to choose. But of course you have to exert more of your effort in looking and searching for the best gifts that you will give, because men are kind of picky than women, so I think, college graduation gifts for men must be something that they will like.
There are times that if we are looking for a college graduation to be given to men, we tend to think of something that interests them, in any case, it is right, why would you give a gift that is not useful to him? Or is not of his interest? What if the person who is going to graduate loves collecting CD’s, DVD’s, cards, and any other possible things that can be collected such as pens go and buy them the stuff they are collecting, buy them , a Fountain Pen. Ha-ha, even though it is expensive, it is good as long as it came from your heart. Or let us say that he is an avid fan of one of the best soccer player in the world? Or maybe should give them those. You will most probably make them feel that they are really special.
If you give them the gift that they want, they will buzz it with someone and will show them what they receive, and of course, it will please them. And you might hear those men saying “I got this because of my degree”. It will then make them proud of themselves that because of his hardships in college, he was able to receive a reward that is really acceptable to him and is very important asset of him, more than the degree he earned.
A dry erase board can make a very good gift for Christmas. Most children enjoy drawing and writing and many times they are practicing their hobby on the house walls, driving their parents crazy. If you’re a parent in this situation, you have a few options:
- discourage your kid’s creativity and forbid him drawing on your walls
- let him do whatever he likes, but avoid inviting people in your home because it looks like a subway station full of graffiti sketches on the walls
- let the child draw but offer him an alternative to your walls: a dry erase board would be exactly what he needs
Here are a few models of dry erase board you can choose from, depending on how much space you have available for it in your home:
Melamine Dry Erase Board with 3/4” rail
This board is made of aluminum and it has a width of 48 inch and a height of 36 inch. It is easy to mount and it costs almost $28, which is a good price taking into consideration the size of the board. Being made of aluminum, the board is not magnetic, but for people who aren’t interested in this feature, it’s just fine. The tray is useful for holding pens, a feature which some models of dry erase boards don’t have.
If you order such a board, make sure to check it very well when you get it, because in case it arrives damaged you’ll want a replacement and you’ll want it fast. The board is attached to the wall from the upper part. This might make the bottom be a bit loose, but you can easily fix it with some adhesive tape.
Board Dudes Magnetic Dry Erase Board Value Pack
This dry erase board is 24 x 36 inches and it’s a bit less than $45. For this price, you also get four dry erase markers of different colors, four magnets, one eraser and four photo document clips. The board looks nice with its aluminum frame and it comes with mounting hardware already included in the package. The included magnets are common, so if you want to have some nicer ones you’ll have to buy them separately. This type of board is suitable for children as well as for adults, as it can be used as a bulletin board if needed. The board can be hung either wide or tall, as you need it.
Universal Office Products Magnetic Dry Erase Board, Melamine
This white 36 x 24 dry erase board is $43, but unlike the above model, it doesn’t include any pens or magnets in the pack. However, it has a nice design, with its contoured frame and with the full-length pen tray. The board is high quality, so even lower quality, cheap markers write well on it, but some customers said that shipping is horrible because of the poor packaging, so it’s maybe wiser to go and pick it up yourself from the warehouse if you can.
Board Dudes 11.25"x11.25" Rubberized Corner Dry Erase Board
These boards surely look nice with their rubberized corners which add a very nice touch of color. You can have them blue, green or violet or other colors, but unfortunately you can’t choose your color when you order, which is quite a non-sense. Otherwise, the boards are very nice to use and they take little space, as they are rather small. The dry erase board is magnetic, so if you wish, you can use it to display your grocery lists or important messages and notes to other members of your family.
The price for such a board is $8.99 on Amazon, and if you add some more to your order the item is eligible for Super Saver Shipping program.